If you’re like most people, you probably hope you will never find yourself in a self-defense scenario.
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As a general rule, self-defense only justifies the use of force when it is used in response to an immediate threat. The use of force in self-defense generally loses justification once the threat has ended. Any use of force by the victim against the assailant at that point, would be considered retaliatory and not self-defense.
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Self-defense is NOT simply fighting.
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“Your early options”, in any scenario are just as important as engaging in a physical response (a fight). Self-defense training should include this type of training, exploring ways of avoiding or defusing potentially dangerous situations early. Topics should include distance, body language, and assertive verbal responses.
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It’s not a tournament, the emphasis is not upon “winning” in a combative situation, but rather upon escaping from a dangerous person(s). You must either control the threat, or the threat will control you….
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The very best defense starts with avoidance of the threat altogether. The sooner you can see it, hear it or ‘feel’ it coming, the sooner you can step off those railroad tracks and avoid that freight train altogether.
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Remember, self-defense in every case, is simply to stop the threat. Once the threat stops, you’re done. It is very important that it is clear who the aggressor is. There’s no point fighting someone if all it takes to get rid of them is to hand over some money or jewelry, which can be replaced.
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Preparing yourself to defend yourself, the correct way, not just simply fighting toe-to-toe, is fundamental and responsible. 
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“Sport sparring is not self-defence and has very little to do with it. Sparring is a test of ability, but ability of a different kind.” – Keinosuke Enoeda (1935-2003)
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