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In the dojo, we all follow strict rules – often guided by a ‘creed’ or ‘Dojo Kun’ (training hall precepts). Every bow, every gesture, and every word carries meaning.
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We call this ‘Reishiki’ (礼式) – the practice of manners, etiquette, and respect. It shapes how we interact with our teachers, our training partners, and even the art itself.
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But Reishiki isn’t just for the dojo. It should belong everywhere – at home, at work, and even online.
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In reality, Reishiki, is about how we carry ourselves and treat others. It’s about consideration, humility, and simple courtesies that foster mutual respect.
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And in a world where everyone is online, all the time, everyday, it has never been more relevant.
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A simple “hello” before asking a question, an introduction goes a long way, or a “thank you” after receiving help – these small gestures reflect just simply good manners. They show that we value the other person’s time and presence, even through a screen.
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Just as we bow before sparring, drills, or when we perform kata, acknowledging others roles in our learning, we can show the same respect online by engaging with kindness and clarity.
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In my own online interactions, I try to apply the same principles I teach in the dojo. Before I post or send a message, I ask myself: Is this respectful? Is it clear? Would I say it this way face-to-face? It’s a habit I diligently follow, just like bowing before stepping on the mat – for me it’s a simple act that sets the right tone.
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This Page, for example, is a space where I share my passion for martial arts. I welcome thoughtful comments, different viewpoints, and the spirit of learning. Just as in the dojo, Reishiki should guide how we interact here too – with good etiquette, patience, and mutual respect. You’re here because you are interested in the martial arts right?
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The truth is, the principle of Reishiki extends far beyond the dojo floor. It’s in how we listen to others, ask for help, how we disagree without hostility, and how we show gratitude for shared experiences.
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Whether we are shaking hands, bowing, or simply replying to a message online, Reishiki reminds us that every interaction is an opportunity to demonstrate good character.
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The spirit of the dojo should be in every part of our lives, not just when we walk through the door. Manners, humility, and respect should be practiced just like anything else. After all, it’s not just how we fight that defines us, but how we conduct ourselves every day. As the saying goes, ‘Manners maketh the man (or woman)’.
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Written by Adam Carter